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From the Desk of Harry Wilmington:

So, you’d like to do online & phone app dating? Awesome!

Dating via websites and your phone are two of the best ways to meet smart, attractive women (including those would never run into in your day-to-day life), but the process for doing it right can feel daunting. Which sites or apps should you use? What types of pictures are most effective? How much should you reveal about yourself on your profile?

And then, once your profile is up, how do you get women to notice it? What kinds of things are they looking for to make them choose you over somebody else? Are you sending the kinds of messages that will increase her attraction? And of course, how do you get them to say “yes” to a date?

I’m going to help you cut through the confusion – to not only learn how to present yourself online, but make sure you’re filling your weeknights with dozens of high-quality dates, too.

In Smart Digital Dating, I’ll walk you step-by-step through the entire process of creating a great online/phone app dating life. With high-quality videos (that aren’t too long) and examples along the way (taken from my real-life profiles and message streams that got me 3 to 5 dates a week), you’ll have your new profile up in no time, so you can start talking to more women the RIGHT way and delighting them on first dates.

Your potential mate is in the digital space waiting to meet you…



I started online dating back in 2007. Since that time, I’ve created dozens of profiles, both on the world wide web and, more recently, using phone apps.

In the beginning, it took many, many tries to figure out how to present myself online in a way that would get me dates with women I truly found attractive (verses just settling for whoever said “yes”). After many failed attempts, I buckled down and decided to really figure out what worked, what didn’t and find the best possible way to present myself to women in the online space.

Since 2011, I’ve been able to successfully date women of all kinds – from different nationalities, backgrounds, interests, etc. – and have also been in a few long-term relationships. How? By creating a rock-solid step-by-step online/phone app dating system that helps me to stand out from the thousands of other profiles women come across on these platforms.

Over the past few years, I’ve coached many men who have asked for guidance in putting together their digital dating profiles. They’ve asked for my help on what pictures they should have, as well as what to say in their profiles. They want to know what their first messages to women should be, and how to get them to agree to offline dates. They need someone who’s been there and done it to help guide them through the whole process.

That’s why I created “Smart Digital Dating” – to help both aspiring and long-time digital daters like you learn from my successes – and failures – so you, too, can be the breath of fresh air that women will be dying to say “YES” to!

“Smart Digital Dating” gives you everything you need to launch your digital dating life successfully, including profile set-up suggestions, picture help, a set of first message openers that work, and bonus items (interviews, templates and more) that will put you far ahead of your digital dating competition.


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“Smart Digital Dating” was built with both the aspiring and long-term digital dater in mind. Whether you’re a new digital dater who wants to get it right the first time, or you’ve been dating online for a while and want to see more results, this course is for you.

  • WORK AT YOUR OWN PACE. There are 6 distinct lessons (plus bonus lessons), taking you from sign up to first date success.
  • CLEAR ACTION ITEMS SET YOU UP FOR SUCCESS. Learn which sites/apps are the best, how to present your best self (without having to lie), which pictures attract women the most, key “trigger items” to include in your profile (that will make women want to reach out to YOU first), and interaction techniques that help build connections quick and effortlessly (and have women asking themselves, "Where has THIS guy been all my life!”).
  • BONUSES KEEP YOU ON TRACK, including message templates, digital dating hacks, audio interviews with women online daters, and a members-only Facebook Group



Across 6 distinct course lessons, you’ll learn all about:

  • The how and why of digital dating: you’ll gain a deep perspective on how and why digital dating can work for you and your dating life – from understanding how to best display yourself in a positive light, to taking advantage of the powerful ways in which women can become hooked on you and your messages.
  • Mastering the technical stuff: I’ll help you with all the technical setup and know-how required to position your profile in the most effective way possible, including an in-depth understanding of profile layout, picture angles women find most attractive, what words (and games) to put in your profile as positive triggers, and more.
  • Mastering the art of communication: I’ll teach you how to come up with first message openers in your natural voice using various cues from her profile, how to continue the conversation in a way that makes her eager to hear from you (no more delayed message responses), and when to know the right time to ask her for a meet-n-greet so that you’ll get a YES every time.
  • Learn from my examples: You will get to see real-life examples of the advice from the course. Read screen shots of conversations I had with women on various digital platforms that lead to dates in real life. See the kinds of pictures I used and my phone app/online dating profiles that helped me score date after date with hundreds of gorgeous, smart women.



“Smart Digital Dating” is designed for people looking to expand their dating opportunities and better connect with more women via online and phone app dating.

The more women you’re able to connect with, the more of a shot you have at finally meeting Mrs. Right. You’re single, you’re a great guy, and you deserve to find happiness – and this is the year you’re going to make it a reality.

You’re not only building a digital presence online – you’re putting yourself out there, and you want to make sure it’s the best self you can display, to show women why you truly ARE the prize. I’m very excited to help you succeed in that with the “Smart Digital Dating” program.


Stop thinking about digital dating and get started today. “Smart Digital Dating” will hold your hand through all the hard parts, including setting up your profile, learning what pictures to take, creating your bio, messaging attractive women, and finally getting your dating life into high gear, the SMART way!


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The meat of the course are the video lessons – 7 main video lessons that take you by the hand and give you the A to Z’s on everything from setting up your profile all the way to asking women on dates; and 4 bonus video lessons teaching you digital dating “hacks,” highlighting key differences between using dating apps vs. websites, mapping out exactly how to set up your online dating profile online and more!


LESSON 1: Anatomy of a Dating App

  • How to download & sign up for dating apps
  • Examples of how various apps function & their features
  • Paid options: what they are and which ones are most helpful in boosting your match rate
  • The best radius to choose for matches
  • How the swiping/matching features work
  • How to know when you’ve matched with someone

LESSON 2: Posting Smart Digital Pictures

  • The number of pictures you should have on your profile
  • A description of what “bad pictures” are (and what in them turns women off)
  • The right way to “brand” yourself on dating apps so more women desire you
  • Questions to ask yourself before posting certain pictures
  • How to give off the appearance of living a life that women will be excited about being a part of
  • Pictures that prompt women to hit YOU up first (if they’re chasing you, they can’t be replacing you)

LESSON 3: Creating a Smart Digital Bio

  • Common mistakes to avoid when putting your bio together (including one that will make women instantly reject you)
  • How to make your bio stand out from the competition
  • What women look for when reading your bio (hint: it’s not a particular THING per se)
  • Bio “hacks” that make your profile more readable, easy to digest, and makes for a quick “yes” decision from women to swipe right
  • 6 different types of effective bio styles (the men getting the most women on dating apps use one of these types every time)
  • Analysis of Bios: I’ll show you 12 different men’s profiles, what makes them effective, and what elements can be used as blueprints for your own bio

LESSON 4: How Women Experience Dating Apps

  • The reason women tend to be more discriminatory when doing phone app dating
  • Why women join dating apps in the first place (and it’s not the reason you’re probably thinking of)
  • The startling statistic that shows why women are more likely to wait for YOU to message them first (even though, statistically, they usually reach out first)
  • Positives and negatives women face on dating apps that are different from men
  • A flow chart that maps out a woman’s digital dating experience (and why many choose to steer clear or complain about their experience)
  • The #1 character trait most men display online that turns women off (simply don’t do this ONE thing, and you’ll already be ahead of 97% of men)
  • How to make women want to respond to you (even if you’re not the hottest guy, just show them ____ and they’ll write you back)

LESSON 5: Sending Smart Digital Messages

  • The top messaging mistakes to avoid (some more obvious than others)
  • Good message “hacks” that will lower her guard and make her excited to respond to you
  • How to come up with creative yet down-to-earth openers effortlessly (with HER help)
  • How to respond & take control of the conversation if she messages YOU first
  • Continuing the convo: how to build the conversation & keep it exciting and fresh
  • Timing your responses: how often to communicate with her so you seem interested yet not needy
  • Troubleshooting: Is she not asking you questions? Is she slow to respond? What these things could mean (again, not necessarily what you think) and how to handle them in a positive way
  • Message length: the secret to keeping the back and forth lively without rambling
  • Remembering the goal: what to keep in mind as you are talking to women on these apps (and how to build anticipation)

LESSON 6: A Template for Getting “YES” to Date Requests

  • The simple 5 step process to asking for dates that practically guarantees you get “yeses”
  • The #1 assumption men make that prevents them from asking for dates (it’s important to know this so that you will actually be one of the few to ask her out)
  • The secret to knowing when to ask her out, and how to transition into it in a natural, effortless way
  • The “date request” blueprint – follow this expertly designed template of how and what to say when making your dating pitch (based on numerous trials, errors, and successes in my personal dating life)
  • How to decide where to take her (and why you should never, ever do this ONE thing when planning the date)
  • Reconfirming the date: when you should (and should not) do it so she won’t flake on the date (and will actually help make her anticipate it even more)
  • A sneaky lil’ psychological trick you can use to practically guarantee she agrees to meet up with you (hint: it’s all about the “Illusion of Choice”)
  • The one thing you must absolutely do immediately after you make your date request (hint: if you don’t do this, you risk talking her out of the date)

LESSON 6.1: Real Life Examples of The “Date Request” Template in Action

  • See photos of my message interactions online with various women, all of which led to first dates
  • Get a visual for how I negotiate the days and times for dates

Includes 4 Downloadable PDFs to Go With Lessons

  • Creating the Perfect Bio: A set of questions to answer that will help you with ideas of what to type in your profile
  • 1st messages that WOW: Scripted conversation starters women can’t help but respond to
  • Template for Asking Her Out In 5 Easy Steps
  • Dating App Messages I sent to Women That Got Me Dates: a collection of conversations I had with a variety of women that got me 1st dates



BONUS LESSON 1: Smart Digital Dating Hacks

13 Phone App dating hacks you can use to attract more women on these platforms, including:

  • A key way to treat phone app dating so you’ll be less anxious and more practical as you match with more women
  • The best days of the week to use the app to get more matches
  • Which in-app purchases are worth getting to boost your app visibility
  • Examples of “swipe-bait” to add to your profile/pictures that will increase how many women swipe right on you
  • The best way to help her envision what it would be like to be with you (and make her choose you much faster)
  • How to help the app’s algorithm present you with more attractive women (hint: if you avoid doing this ONE thing, the app is more likely to show you a hotter selection)
  • Use THIS playful conversation trick to make her feel like she has to “qualify” herself to you in some way (if she’s working for your approval, it only helps increase your chances of getting a date with her)

BONUS LESSON 2: Dating Apps vs. Online Dating Websites

  • A major difference between phone apps and online dating, and how it affects your dating approach
  • How the “matching” system differs between apps & online dating platforms
  • Profile set up: why you can expand with more words online vs. on apps
  • The #1 reason online dating is seen as more of a choice for people wanting serious relationships vs. phone apps, and how to use this to your advantage

BONUS LESSON 3: Online Dating Profile Set-Ups & Searches

  • Example templates of online profiles based on my own setups on two very popular platforms
  • Explanations of the various functions available to help you in your online dating quest for women

BONUS LESSON 4: Searching & Matching with Women Online

  • Narrowing down your search engine options to better specify the kinds of women that show up in your online dating search
  • How to tell the difference between real & fake profiles (and active vs non-active members)
  • What to look for in their profile bios to help determine their personality (and if they are more likely to be a positive or negative person)
  • Which paid options can help increase the number of women you’re compatible with


Photo Set-Up Tips

  • How to set up a quality photo-session for yourself to get pics that will excite women and show them why they should choose you
  • The different kinds of pictures you need to take and how to frame yourself
  • Making yourself pleasing to women’s eyes
  • How to get professional-looking pictures on a small budget (including high-quality clothes)
  • To beard or not to beard: the rules for showing off your facial hair (and what it says about you to women)
  • Why you should avoid this one particular pose (you don’t want to scare her away!)
  • The #1 secret to a great-looking photo (this single action in your photos will draw women to you)
  • The best tools to use if you’re taking solo pics (so you’re not just taking selfies)
  • The secret to taking muscle pictures that make you seem charming vs. braggy or a douche

Interview with A Female Online Dater

  • An interview with “Sarah,” a woman digital dater. Listen in as you learn about the female dating experience on the world wide web: why they do it, some of the challenges they face, what they’re looking for on men’s profiles, what turns them on & off, things they analyze when looking at your pictures (and how they REALLY feel about those muscle pictures), what things pique their curiosity (and make them want to reach out first), convos topics and/or intros to avoid, how to increase their attraction during conversations, how long to wait before asking them out (the number of messages they need will SHOCK you), plus examples of messages they get sent (that you should avoid sending at all costs)

Storytime with a Female Online Dater

  • An interview with “McKenzie,” who gives us the harrowing story of a guy she met online who she was attracted to at first, but lost interest in overtime due to several mistakes. It’s a must-listen for you to see how you can ruin your chances with women in the digital space by not being the kind of man she needs you to be!


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How long do I have access to the course?

You will have lifetime access to the course, including any updates to videos or bonuses.

What equipment/tools will I need to complete the course?

In this course, you will need a phone and a computer… and that’s about it. We will walk you through some of the most popular and effective digital dating apps and websites, some of which may have upgrades that cost money but aren’t needed to be successful.

What do I do if I need help?

If you have a question related to the course, email harrywilmington@gmail.com.

How long is the course?

For best results, plan to take about one month to complete the course and implement all the content into your digital dating life. There are 11 videos and 3 audio bonuses totaling over 5 hours of content, plus bonus PDFs to fill out. Most videos averaging around 18-22 minutes, with the shortest being around 15 minutes and the longest being 34 minutes; the audio bonuses range from 16 to 27 minutes.

What is the payment process?

Simply click the course option that works best for you, and you will be taken to a secure check-out page.

What if I am unhappy with the course?

Oh no! We don’t want that! We offer a 30-day money-back guarantee. If you are unhappy with the course for any reason, let us know and we will refund your payment within 30 days. (Note: After the 30 days, refunds will not be accepted for any reason.)

When does the course start and finish?

The course will be reopened periodically; use the email sign up box to receive notifications when the course opens. Once you have enrolled, you have ongoing access. This course is self-paced and you may take as long as you need to complete it.


Digital dating changed the way I meet women forever – and I know it can change yours, too. It’s an incredible way to connect with women outside your circle, build new relationships, and increase your self-esteem.

My “Smart Digital Dating” course walks you through the entire process of creating your new digital life and succeeding with dating. Join today, and see just how much your new kick-ass digital dating skills can do for your love life.


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